WALANG BOLAHAN: Madalang nang mangalabit (6)

Dear Dra. Holmes,

I need your help. My husband and I have been married for over 15 years. He’s hardworking, out of the country 10 months of the year.

We used to be sexual­ly active. Now, at 40, he seldom initiates sex. It takes 3-5 days before he initiates sex. Before, he would initiate sex the day he arrives.

Sometimes he tells me he thinks his sexual ardor is diminishing. I must admit this new behavior is hard to get used to.

I know he has no other woman. I think he feels I am too loose ‘down there’. We do things to make me tighter. He now always watches porn.

Is this natural A new sickness that he has developed If so, what can I do to help him get better?

Sometimes, when we have sex, he asks: “Do you want it big and fat?” I feel he imagines my doing it with someone else with a big penis, and that is why I am so loose down there. It seems he is only satisfied if we use the position where he feels I am tight so he gets satisfied. But why is he like that — Clarissa

Dear Clarissa,

Maraming salamat sa sulat mo na pinublish natin ng buo noong nakaraang Lunes, Nobyembre 21, sinulat mo na gusto mong malaman kung ang asawa mo ay may sakit (problema) at anong magagawa mo para tulungan siya. Nagbigay ka ng apat na mga dahilan kung bakit ka nag-aalala na baka mayroon siyang sakit.

Tatalakayin natin isa-isa ang apat na nahalata mo, pero gaya nang sinabi ko sa huling kolum natin noong nakaraang Lunes, ang apat na mga obserbasyon (observations) mo sa taas ay maaari pa ring nangangahulugang na wala siyang sakit.

Maaring walang masamang dahilan para sa mga pagbabago na napapansin mo sa asawa mo. Kinukumpara mo ang asawa mo noong siya ay 15 taong mas bata at sa ngayon. Ngayon na siya ay 40 taong gulang.

Nagugulat at nag-aalala ka na nagbago ang katawan niya, kahit na 15 years na ang lumipas. Hindi ‘yan realistic, Clarissa. Bihirang-bihira na ang isang lalake ay kasingmakisig, malakas at malibog kagaya nang siya ay 40 kaysa nang siya ay 25. Sasabihin ko saiyo bakit sa susunod na kolum natin. TO BE CONTINUED.

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